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Many (not all) questions in this section are ones I’ve answered on Quora.com (some where the people personally requested that I answer their questions, and some not). Quora’s Terms of Service, which were updated on December 18, 2017, give full permission to repost this content. (Some questions may also have been altered for the sake of grammar, spelling, or added information given throughout comment strings):

lack of trust
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How Can I Make Myself Trust My Boyfriend?

September 18, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, how can I make myself trust my boyfriend? How Can You “MAKE” Yourself Trust Your Boyfriend Hi, wait, how can you “MAKE” yourself trust your boyfriend? Well, you can probably try a lot [Continue Reading…]

Home Cheat Home
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Is it wise to move in with her if you suspect her of cheating?

September 11, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, is it wise to move in with her if you suspect her of cheating? Dude, no freakin’ way! I mean, that’s a huge “NO”. Plus, I’ll always say it’s not wise to move [Continue Reading…]

He doesn't want a relationship
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He’s Not Ready To Be In a Relationship?

September 4, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, what does it mean if a guy says that he’s not ready to be in a relationship? Hi, actually, it could mean several things, such as: He just got out of a relationship [Continue Reading…]

rejection at gym
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How Can I Survive Rejection At the Gym?

August 28, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, I indirectly told a guy who works in the gym that I liked him, but it seemed that he was not that into me. I’m so embarrassed! How can I face this rejection? [Continue Reading…]

Keeping a girl in the friend zone
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How to Keep a Girl in the Friend Zone?

August 21, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, what if you like a woman as a friend, but don’t fancy her sexually, yet she fancies you that way? Hi, yeah, been there – not a fun situation to be in, either. [Continue Reading…]

1 guy married to 2 women from different countries
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Can You Be Married To Two Different People In Two Different Countries?

August 14, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, can a person be married to two different people, in two different countries, at the same time? You know, you wouldn’t think that somebody could be married to several different people in several [Continue Reading…]

She didn't smile when I spoke with her
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Why Didn’t She Smile When She Said She’s Happy?

August 7, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, I asked her, with smile on my face, how are you? She replied in a very low tone, that she is happy, but she didn’t smile. (She knows that I love her but [Continue Reading…]

girl starting conversation
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How Might a Girl Start a Conversation With a Guy?

July 31, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, how would you want a girl to start a conversation with you after class if she likes you, but you didn’t know it? Hi, are you the girl who wants to start a [Continue Reading…]

hooking up for marriage prep?
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Is Hooking Up for Promiscuous Sex a Good Preparation for Marriage

June 4, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, in God’s design, is hooking up for promiscuous sex a good preparation for marriage? Hooking up as marriage prep? What? No. Where did you even get that idea? Definitely not. God’s design for [Continue Reading…]

dream Interpretation - tracks
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Please Help Analyze My Epic and Vivid Dream

January 28, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, Will you help me analyze a really weird, epic dream? I’ve had really vivid epic dreams for like the past year or so. I don’t dream often, but when I do, I can usually remember [Continue Reading…]

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