Hey Andy, a guy confessed his feelings for me. I think I might like him, but I still have feelings for my ex, so I told him I didn’t have feelings for him. Have I done the right thing?
Hi, you know, it’s interesting you ask this because I just answered a question from a guy who’d just asked about something similar – he said he went out on a date with a girl he really likes, but messed everything up because of how nervous he was, so he was asking if he should just share his feelings with her. You don’t suppose your question would happen to be connected with this guy, would you? Could this be the guy who confessed his feelings for you?
Not Your “Current” Boyfriend
Either way, I think you need to figure out what you want to do and what you’re looking for. Because, though I understand you have feelings for your ex, he’s your ex for a reason, right? I mean, he’s your “ex”, not your “current” boyfriend. You tried and it didn’t work for some reason, and now he’s your ex. So you need to figure out what happened and either communicate with him about whether or not he wants to try again, or if you should move on. And if you like this other guy who has confessed his feelings for you, then you may need to look at what went wrong with your previous relationship, and see if you can’t make it work with this other guy.
Figure Out What You’re Looking For In Life
On another side, because you’re still hung up on this guy, you may want to just take some time off from dating anybody right now, and figure out what you’re looking for in life, in guys, in relationships, who you are, who you want to be, what you have to offer, reflect on how you’ve behaved in relationships, rekindle friendships with your girls and build a support group from them who will tell you like it is and not hold back when needed, etc.
As Well As Build My Relationship With God
I once took some time off from dating altogether to do just that, as well as build my relationship with God. What I thought would be a few months, turned into a few years! And you know what? I really learned a lot about myself, what I was looking for in a relationship, how girls act, say, and actually mean; what to say and how to say what I meant without it begin taken wrongly, what I needed in a future spouse, how not to settle for just anybody who was interested in me, how to take things slowly, how to get to know somebody before becoming intimate, etc. And most of all, I really got to know God better, which was my main goal, and should be your’s also, for only He can express to you the real love that you long for. And really, once you understand what real, and I mean REAL love is, and how it expresses itself, THEN you can express it to others, and expect it from others. And if you don’t experience a similar love from them, then you know it’s not worth pursuing the relationship any further.
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