How Can I Survive Rejection At the Gym?

rejection at gym
Hey Andy, I indirectly told a guy who works in the gym that I liked him, but it seemed that he was not that into me. I’m so embarrassed! How can I face this rejection? What should I do?

Hi, well, though rejection is never a fun experience, one thing you could do is take advice from Taylor Swift, and “Shake it off” (sorry, bad pun). But yeah, honestly, I’d say “don’t worry about it” because though people do hook up at the gym on occasion, it’s not why we’re all there — a majority of us go there to actually work out.

But now, if you’re worried about seeing him at the gym, then you could plug into your tunes, zone out everything around you, and destroy your workout. If you’re wrong, and he likes you back, he’ll say something, especially since you’re doing what you can to zone him out.

But don’t worry about it. There are so many people that go to the gym that he shouldn’t be more than a passing ship in the wind (sorry, another pun). Just focus on your workout, get healthy, get strong, get buff, feel good about yourself, and you quickly won’t care what he, nor others, think of you.

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