Hey Andy, How can I be happy being single?
Hi,
You could use it as a time to get to know yourself without somebody. Because if you’re so used to knowing who you are with somebody, then you’ll never actually know the true you, you know? (ha, wordplay there).
Take a Break from Dating
Seriously though. I once took a break from dating in order to take time to get to know myself, and to also get to know God. I didn’t plan this, but I ended up not dating at all for 3 years! Not because I didn’t really want to, but because as I got to know myself better, I respected myself more and raised my standards, so during that time, I just never met anybody that I found worth getting involved with.
It’s important to take a break from dating to get to know yourself without somebody. Only then will you know what you really want/need in a relationship, who you are, what you have to offer them, and the self-control to not get involved with anybody who comes around just because they’re there. Instead, you’ll hold off for that somebody that you realize fits you best.
How to be Sanely Single
Now, how to be single and not drive yourself crazy? Get busy. Do stuff that you don’t normally do. Go places you don’t normally go. Hang out with your friends and meet new people with the genuinuity of actually wanting to get to meet them.
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