Hey Andy, what if you like a woman as a friend, but don’t fancy her sexually, yet she fancies you that way?
Hi, yeah, been there – not a fun situation to be in, either.
The first thing that you need to do is communicate to your female-friend how you feel (and how you don’t feel), and she needs to be clear about it.
Once you’ve done that, you need to set healthy boundaries. In other words, you need to keep to what you told her – you can’t flirt with her, for that will confuse her; you can’t walk around with little or no clothes on around her, for that will only cause her to desire you more, and maybe even try something to knock down the boundaries; etc.
Understand, you can have a good friendship with her without the intimacy of anything more, though. You just need to make sure that she understands where you stand and that there’s no chance of even hooking up, but that you value her friendship and want to keep that, if she’s willing, also.
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