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Tribute to My Grandma Senese

July 30, 2021 Andy 0

When my grandma passed away, I remembered that I had written a tribute to her a couple of years ago. I don’t know if this was foretelling, but when I was looking through the files, [Continue Reading…]

Getting over a breakup - picture author = Kelly Sikkema, from Unsplash.com
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How To Get Over a 3-Year Relationship

January 18, 2021 Andy 0

Hey Andy, recently, my 3-year-old toxic relationship has ended by my ex cheating on me. Even though I know it’s good for a long run, still, I am feeling sad and miserable about it. What [Continue Reading…]

Dream of former crush or relationship - Author = Jamez Picard, downloaded with permission from Unspalsh.com
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Why Do I Keep Dreaming About My Former Crush?

July 27, 2020 Andy 0

Hey Andy, what does it mean if I keep dreaming about my childhood crush? I haven’t seen him in years! Hi, thanks for asking. First thing, don’t freak out. Many people have dreams about former [Continue Reading…]

Should people of different religions be in relationships?
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Does Religion In the US Play A Big Role In Relationships?

January 14, 2020 Andy 0

Hey Andy, does religion in the US play a big role when choosing partners? Hi, I don’t know if religion DOES play a big role in choosing partners, but it should. How We See God [Continue Reading…]

How will she know if he likes her?
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How Will I Know If My Soon-to-Be Boyfriend Really Likes Me?

January 7, 2020 Andy 0

Hey Andy, how do you know if your soon to be boyfriend really likes you? You know, Whitney Houston sang a song on this same question about 30-some years ago. My suggestion, don’t rush into [Continue Reading…]

gym crush, seen from the guy on the right
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How Can I Ignore My Gym Crush?

July 9, 2019 Andy 0

Hey Andy, how can I ignore my gym crush? Hi, I’m not sure if I’ve ever had a gym crush (except for when my wife had a membership and went with me to the gym). [Continue Reading…]

Ugly and Beauty like an egg
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I Am Ugly and Dream Of Having A Beautiful Girlfriend

October 9, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, what should I do if I am an ugly guy, yet my biggest dream is to have a beautiful girlfriend? Hey friend, well, first, you need to understand that beauty comes from within, [Continue Reading…]

How to talk with a girl
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How Do I Talk With A Girl To Impress Her?

October 2, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, how do I talk with a girl to impress her? Hi, are you asking how you can GET a good impression, or how you can GIVE a good impression? Either way, here are 15 [Continue Reading…]

Why my Ex-Girlfriend Wishes me a happy anniversary
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Why Does My Ex-Girlfriend Call To Wish Me A Happy Anniversary?

October 2, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, what does it mean when an ex-girlfriend calls me to wish me a happy anniversary? Hi. OK, well, if your ex-girlfriend is calling you on your anniversary, then yeah, that is a little [Continue Reading…]

First Relationship date
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Advice For Somebody’s First Relationship

September 25, 2018 Andy 0

Hey Andy, I’m 17 and I’ve never been in a relationship or done anything with a girl, other than talk to them. But now, I have a girlfriend, and I don’t know what to do. [Continue Reading…]

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